Saturday, January 24, 2015

Understanding the reason behind others' action !!!

A cruise ship met with an incident at sea, on the ship was a pair of couple, after having made their way to the lifeboat, they realized that there was only space for one person left.

At this moment, the man pushed the woman behind him and jumped onto the lifeboat himself.

The lady stood on the sinking ship and shouted one sentence to her husband.

The teacher stopped and asked, "What do you think she shouted?"

Most of the students excitedly answered, "I hate you! I was blind!"

Now, the teacher noticed a boy who was silent throughout, she got him to answer and he replied, "Teacher, I believe she would have shouted - Take care of our child!"

The teacher was surprised, asking "Have you heard this story before?"

The boy shook his head, "Nope, but that was what my mum told my dad before she died to disease".

The teacher lamented, "The answer is right".

The cruise sunk, the man went home and brought up their daughter single-handedly.

Many years later after the death of the man, their daughter found his diary while tidying his belongings.

It turns out that when parents went onto the cruise ship, the mother was already diagnosed with a terminal illness.
At the critical moment, the father rushed to the only chance of survival.

He wrote in his diary, "How I wished to sink to the bottom of the ocean with you, but for the sake of our daughter, I can only let you lie forever below the sea alone".

The story is finished, the class was silent.

The teacher knows that the student has understood the moral of the story, that of the good and the evil in the world, there are many complications behind them which are hard to understand.

Which is why we should never only focus on the surface and judge others without understanding them first.

Those who like to pay the bill, do so not because they are loaded but because they value friendship above money.

Those who take the initiative at work, do so not because they are stupid but because they understand the concept of responsibility.

Those who apologizes first after a fight, do so not because they are wrong but because they value the people around them.

Those who are willing to help you, do so not because they owe you any thing but because they see you as a true friend.

Those who often text you, do so not because they have nothing better to do but because you are in their heart ,all the time.

Understanding the reason behind others' action !!!

A cruise ship met with an incident at sea, on the ship was a pair of couple, after having made their way to the lifeboat, they realized that there was only space for one person left.

At this moment, the man pushed the woman behind him and jumped onto the lifeboat himself.

The lady stood on the sinking ship and shouted one sentence to her husband.

The teacher stopped and asked, "What do you think she shouted?"

Most of the students excitedly answered, "I hate you! I was blind!"

Now, the teacher noticed a boy who was silent throughout, she got him to answer and he replied, "Teacher, I believe she would have shouted - Take care of our child!"

The teacher was surprised, asking "Have you heard this story before?"

The boy shook his head, "Nope, but that was what my mum told my dad before she died to disease".

The teacher lamented, "The answer is right".

The cruise sunk, the man went home and brought up their daughter single-handedly.

Many years later after the death of the man, their daughter found his diary while tidying his belongings.

It turns out that when parents went onto the cruise ship, the mother was already diagnosed with a terminal illness.
At the critical moment, the father rushed to the only chance of survival.

He wrote in his diary, "How I wished to sink to the bottom of the ocean with you, but for the sake of our daughter, I can only let you lie forever below the sea alone".

The story is finished, the class was silent.

The teacher knows that the student has understood the moral of the story, that of the good and the evil in the world, there are many complications behind them which are hard to understand.

Which is why we should never only focus on the surface and judge others without understanding them first.

Those who like to pay the bill, do so not because they are loaded but because they value friendship above money.

Those who take the initiative at work, do so not because they are stupid but because they understand the concept of responsibility.

Those who apologizes first after a fight, do so not because they are wrong but because they value the people around them.

Those who are willing to help you, do so not because they owe you any thing but because they see you as a true friend.

Those who often text you, do so not because they have nothing better to do but because you are in their heart ,all the time.

Friday, January 23, 2015

Wah re Corporate Culture :-)

एक नन्हीं चींटी रोज अपने काम पर समय से आती थी और अपना काम समय पर करती थी.....

वे जरूरत से ज्यादा काम करके भी खूब खुश थी.......

ज्ंगल के राजा शेर नें एक दिन चींटी को काम करते हुए देखा, और आश्चर्यचकित हुआ कि चींटी बिना किसी निरीक्षण के काम कर रही थी........

उसने सोचा कि अगर चींटी बिना किसी सुपरवाईजर के इतना काम, कर रही थी तो जरूर सुपरवाईजर के साथ वो अधिक काम कर सकती थी.......

उसनें काक्रोच को नियुक्त किया जिसे सुपर्वाईजरी का 10 साल का अनुभव था,   और वो रिपोर्टों का बढ़िया अनुसंधान करता था .....

काक्रोच नें आते ही साथ सुबह आने का टाइम, लंच टाईम और जाने का टाईम निर्धारित किया, और अटेंडेंस रजिस्टर बनाया.....

उसनें अपनी रिपोर्टें टाईप करने के लिये, सेकेट्री भी रखी....

उसनें मकड.ी को नियुक्त किया जो सारे फोनों का जवाब देता था और सारे रिकार्डों को मेनटेन करता था......

शेर को काक्रोच की रिपोर्टें पढ़ कर बड़ी खुशी हुई, उसने काक्रोच से कहा कि वो प्रोडक्शन एनालिसिस करे और, बोर्ड मीटिंग में प्रस्तुत करने के लिये ग्राफ बनाए......

इसलिये काक्रोच को नया कम्प्यूटर और लेजर प्रिंटर खरीदना पड़ा.........

और उसनें आई टी डिपार्टमैंट संभालने के लिए मक्खी को नियुक्त किया........

चींटी जो शांति के साथ अपना काम पूरा करना चाहती थी इतनी रिपोर्टों को लिखकर और मीटिंगों से परेशान होने लगी.......

शेर ने सोचा कि अब वक्त आ गया है कि जहां चींटी काम करती है वहां डिपार्टमेंट का अधिकारी नियुक्त किया जाना चाहिये....

उसनें  झींगुर को नियुक्त किया, झींगुर ने आते ही साथ अपने आॅफिस के लिये कार्पेट और ए.सी. खरीदा.....

नये बाॅस झींगुर को भी कम्प्यूटर की जरूरत पड़ी और उसे चलाने के लिये वो अपनी पिछली कम्पनी में काम कर रही असिस्टंेट को भी नई कम्पनी में ले आया.........

चींटी जहां काम कर रही थी वो दुःख भरी जगह हो गयी जहां सब एक दूसरे पर आदेश चलाते थे और चिल्लाते रहते थें......

झींगुर ने शेर को कुछ समय बाद बताया कि आॅफिस मे टीमवर्क कमजोर हो गया है और माहौल बदलने के लिए कुछ करना चाहिये......

चींटी के डिपार्टमेंट की रिव्यू करते वक्त शेर ने देखा कि पहले से उत्पादकता बहुत कम हो गयी थी.......

उत्पादकता बढ़ाने के लिये शेर ने एक प्रसिद्ध कंसलटेंट उल्लू को नियुक्त किया.......

उल्लू नें चींटी के विभाग का गहन अघ्ययन तीन महीनों तक किया फिर उसनें अपनी 1200 पेज की रिपोर्ट दी जिसका निष्कर्ष था कि विभाग में बहुत ज्यादा लोग हैं..... जो कम करने की आवश्यकता है......

सोचिये शेर ने नौकरी से किसको निकाला......

नन्हीं चींटी को.......... क्योंकि उसमें “ नेगेटिव एटीट्यूड, टीमवर्क, और मोटिवेशन की कमी थी.......“
isse kahte hain corporate culture😜😜😜

Who is RESPONSIBLE ???

An awesome message. Sharing with you, hoping gives a whole new perspective to our lives

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage.

They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes.

When the boy was around two years old, one morning the
husband saw a medicine bottle open.

He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard.

His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all.

It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages.

When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died.

The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

QUESTIONS :

1. What were the five words ?
2. What is the implication of this story?

ANSWER :

The husband just said "I am with you Darling"

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead..!! He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother.

Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened..!!

No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child.

What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy
from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there
would be much fewer problems in the world.

"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step". Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and
fears.

And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

MORAL OF THE STORY:

This story is really worth reading

Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know.

By this way we miss out something called L.I.F.E. 😊